Saturday, November 10, 2012

Things I Learned Today

1.  Isaac REALLY likes to say "Mommy."

2.  If I'm ever without Anya or Victor and I need help, I need to look for a well-dressed 20 something.  An adorable young girl treated me like a celebrity today when she found out I was from America.  Oh how she made me smile.

3.  Anya either stalks me on Facebook, is clairvoyant, or is a true, for-real, no-kidding angel (my best guess).  Today she asked me what *I* want to do while in Donetsk.  She suggested a Turkish bath, Japanese bath, or spa.

4.  Young boys love ropes courses, no matter where they come from.

5.  McDonald's is a really big deal in Donetsk.  At 3:30 in the afternoon it was packed like I've never seen a McDonald's packed.  You need shoulder pads in that place.

6.  Most importantly, I learned that Dr. Karyn Purvis knows what she's talking about.  She wrote "The Connected Child," a very helpful book for those considering adoption.  This morning, Eli was acting a little strange.  Not really acting out, just doing odd things I hadn't seen him do before.  He may have been bored, or feeling the strain of all the changes today...I'm not sure.  Instead of reprimanding him, I responded the way Dr. Purvis suggests: with a "time in."  For about 45 minutes I shared a chair with him.  We listened to music together (his choice), quietly chatting and joking with each other.  Fortunately, Isaac was busy with a sticker book through all this.  After that, Eli was back to the sweet, gentle Eli I've gotten to know.

Pictures to follow.




These boys aren't afraid of anything!


I see a trip to Roatan in our future :)

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