The boys seem more and more comfortable around us and filled with joy about this whole family thing. Last night when we were tucking them in to bed, they both kept saying, "Good night Mama! Good night Papa! I love you Mama! I love you Papa!" over and over. Food issues seem to be relaxing, if not resolving. Their English is getting good enough that we can communicate about more than just basic needs. As far as bonding goes, everything is heading in the right direction. If only we could get these logistics taken care of so we can go home!
We went to a soccer game tonight. The sporting events really are a highlight of our time here. We are hoping to catch a hockey game with Curt yet this week. At these games, there is an organized cheering/chanting section. At the soccer game tonight it was a couple hundred people. There are a few drummers and a conductor that leads the chants. The chanters all wave flags, and tonight I saw a startling open flame and orange smoke that looked a lot like the smoke that comes from the nearby metal factories. ;) They chant pretty much through the entire game. It's really, really cool.
My son belongs to a group of DC United fans called "Barra Brava" -- which probably came after a similar group in Argentina. Anyway, they have giant flags and chants and songs and really enjoy the games. So, when you are back home, if you take the boys to an MLS game, they may see similar fan activity. :-)
ReplyDeleteYou realize you are giving them some good memories of the Ukraine, which will be nice for them to have because it will always be where they "came from." They will be able to remember the transition as being not so bleak...a transition from orphanage to family and the USA. Just being out of the orphanage is a culture shock, let alone being in a country with a different EVERYTHING.
Those boys are amazed every morning they wake up now. Truly brings a deep understanding of "Thanksgiving." I can imagine this will be a highly emotional season in your family for the rest of your lives.
Thanks Diane.
ReplyDeleteThat's great to know about the MLS games. We've never been to one, and it's never really been on our radar, but we'll have to start seeking them out. I think Cassie and Clay might enjoy them, too.